California Divorce - Step by Step
1. File Petition
2. Serve your Spouse and File Proof of Service
Option 01 - If your spouse is WILLING to sign the document:
- Step #1 - List documents to be served
- A copy of ALL the papers you filed with the court (except for any fee waiver papers you may have filed).
- Response - Marriage Form (FL-120)
- Declaration Under Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act (UCCJEA) (FL-105/GC-120) - If you have children with your spouse.
Your "server" (age of 18 or older and not you) will need to serve your spouse with the following:
- Step #2 - Choose way to serve your spouse
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Personal service:
This means that your "server" hand-delivers a copy of all the papers (and required blank forms) to your spouse. OR,
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Service by mail with a Notice and Acknowledgment
of Receipt:
If you and your spouse are cooperating on your family law case, and your spouse agrees to accept service by mail, this can be an easy and less expensive way to serve the papers.
Someone 18 or older (NOT you) that is not involved in the case must mail copies of each of the forms you filed with the court, the blank forms listed above, and 2 copies of the Notice and Acknowledgment of Receipt (Family Law) ( FL-117).
- Declaration Under Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act (UCCJEA) (FL-105/GC-120) - If you have children with your spouse.
You can choose one of the following methods to serve your spouse:
- Step #3 - File your proof of service
- Proof of service of summons (FL-115)
- Notice and Acknowledgment of Receipt (FL-117) - Only if service by mail
Once you serve your spouse with copies of your papers, you must show the court that you completed this step.
To do this, your "server" has to fill out:
Option 02 - If spouse is missing:
If you do not know the whereabouts of your spouse or domestic partner in order to properly serve him or her with your filed Summons and Petition (or some other document), you can ask the court for permission to serve your papers 'by publication' or 'by posting'.
- Step #1 - Choose way to serve your spouse
- Service by publication
- Service by posting
Service by publication means that you publish the Summons or other document in a newspaper of general circulation in the area where your spouse or partner is likely to be. For service by publication, you will have to pay the newspaper a fee to publish the document. It will have to be published for 4 weeks in a row, at least once a week.
Service by posting means that the court clerk posts the Summons or other document in a visible place designated for court notices at the courthouse. To serve by posting, you must qualify for a court fee waiver.
- Step #2 - Prepare documents
- Application for Order for Publication or Posting (FL-980)
- Order for Publication or Posting (FL-982)
- Request to Waive Court Fees (FW-001) - If you are asking for permission to do service by posting. (If you already have an order for a waiver of fees in this case, you do not have to fill out a new request for ask for permission to serve by posting.)
- Step #3 - File to court
3. Preliminary disclosure of financial information
Step #3.1 - Exchange Financial Disclosure Forms with your spouse after complete
Within 60 days of filing the Petition, the petitioner and respondent must fill out and serve the following forms on the other party:
- Declaration of Disclosure (FL-140) , which is a cover sheet for your declaration of disclosure
- Schedule of Assets and Debts (FL-142) or a Property Declaration (FL-160) and
- Income and Expense Declaration (FL-150)
- All tax returns you filed in the last 2 years with your disclosure documents.
Step #3.2 - Exchange Financial Disclosure Forms with your spouse after complete
Fill out the following form and file. The form tells the court you sent your disclosure documents as required.
- Declaration Regarding Service of Declaration of Disclosure (FL-141)
4. Wait 30 days
5. Finalize the divorce
Step #5.1 - Ways of Finalize Divorce
- Option #1 - Spouse Filed a Response(FL-120) and you Have an Agreement (Uncontested Case)
Either party files following forms:
- Option #2 - Spouse Filed a Response (FL-120) and you DO NOT Have an Agreement (Contested Case)
The parties must go to trial and have a judicial officer resolve the issues.
- Option #3 - Spouse DID NOT File a Response (FL-120) and you DO NOT Have an Agreement (True Default Case)
The Petitioner waits 30 days after Service has been completed (STEP 2).
- Option #4 - Spouse/Partner DID NOT File a Response and you Have an Agreement (Default Case with Written Agreement)
- The written, notarized agreement between the spouses, agreeing on the terms of divorce.
- Request to Enter Default (FL-165) or Appearance, Stipulations, and Waivers (FL-130)
- Declaration for Default or Uncontested Dissolution or Legal Separation (FL-170)
- Judgment (FL-180)
- Notice of Entry of Judgment (FL-190)
Step #5.2 - Orders and Support Forms
- Custody orders
- Child Custody and Visitation (Parenting Time) Order Attachment (FL-341)
- Supervised Visitation Order (FL-341(A))
- Child Abduction Prevention Order Attachment (FL-341(B))
- Children's Holiday Schedule Attachment (FL-341(C))
- Additional Provisions - Physical Custody Attachment (FL-341(D))
- Joint Legal Custody Attachment (FL-341(E))
Fill out the forms that apply:
- Child support
- Child Support Information and Order Attachment (FL-342)
- Income and Expense Declaration (FL-150) or Financial Statement (Simplified) (FL-155)
- Child Support Case Registry Form (FL-191)
- Notice of Rights and Responsibilities - Health-Care Costs and Reimbursement Procedures and Information Sheet on Changing a Child Support Order ( FL-192 ) (there is nothing to fill out with this form, but read it carefully).
- Income Withholding for Support (FL-195) - If you want your spouse's or domestic partner's wages garnished for child support.
Fill out the forms that apply:
- Spousal support
- Spousal, Partner, or Family Support Order Attachment (FL-343)
- Income and Expense Declaration (FL-150)
- Earnings Assignment Order for Spousal or Partner Support (FL-435) - (Only if you are NOT also asking for child support). If you are asking for child support, you can include the spousal or partner support information for wage garnishments in Form FL-195
Fill out the forms that apply:
- Order dividing community property and debt
- Property Order Attachment to Judgment (FL-345)
- Property Declaration (FL-160)
- Pension Benefits - Attachment to Judgment (FL-348) - (If you or your spouse or domestic partner has a pension plan). .
Fill out the forms that apply:
Step #5.3 - Completing the final Declaration of Disclosure
- Option #1 - Skip your final declaration of disclosure
If you both want to waive (Skip) your final Declaration of Disclosure, use following form:
- Option #2 - Serve a Final Declaration of Disclosure
- Step #1 - Exchange Financial Disclosure Forms with your spouse after complete
- Declaration of Disclosure (FL-140)
- Schedule of Assets and Debts (FL-142) or Property Declaration (FL-160)
- Income and Expense Declaration (FL-150)
- And, as part of the declaration of disclosure, you must also write, on separate sheets of paper:
- A statement explaining how you came up with your estimated value of all assets that are all or partly community property;
- A statement listing values of the assets and debts that you and your spouse or domestic partner may be liable for; and
- A list of your investment opportunities since you separated.
- Step #2 - File to court
You and your spouse each have to prepare and serve a final Declaration of Disclosure at the end of your case. The final Declaration of Disclosure will use the same forms as the preliminary declaration and must have complete, up-to-date information.
Fill out the following form and file. The form tells the court you sent your disclosure documents as required.